I once thought being multi-faceted was my superpower.

Truly…who wouldn’t want to hire someone who can produce a live television segment, negotiate a brand partnership over coffee in Paris, write a federal policy memo, and style a vintage CHANEL blazer for under $100?
Turns out? A lot of #hiringmanagers don’t.

Bonjour mes amies! I recently shared via an emotion-filled vlog (click here to watch), how the “No’s” I’ve been hearing (not receiving) which seems daily were taking a toll on me.

You see, when some hiring managers, contract specialists, brand managers (or anyone in the space to tell the idea I pitch “Oui, or Non”), see a CV or portfolio like mine they panic. 

“Won’t you miss traveling to Paris and splitting your time in Dubai if you started a project with us?”

“Wait…so are you a producer, a strategist, a writer, a publicist, a fashion historian, or…?” 

“Oui, I am ALL. OF. THE. ABOVE. and MORE.”

What so many in these positions of giving a “Oui”, fail to realize is that real-world expertise doesn’t always live in tidy little boxes, it lives in lived experience.

It’s cultivated in boardrooms and baggage claims. It’s shaped by pivots, side hustles, survival, and reinvention.

So if you’ve ever been told you’re “doing too much,” let me assure you: You are so close to living in your divine light.

I fully understand that my one-liner of motivation hails in comparison to the toll being “rejected” (parce que we know we are NOT being rejected, we’re being rerouted) so often takes on your mental, emotional, and physical health.

Hearing so many “Non’s” can shatter an already delicate personal state. Perhaps you’ve been told throughout your life that you had to pick one career and stick with it. Perhaps you’ve dropped out of school and you’re being “reminded” that your worth is solely tied to a piece of paper. Or maybe you have a brilliant idea but everyone around you continues to say how: useless, silly, time-consuming or financially cumbersome your labor of love will be.

The people and truly AI systems, “in charge” of the “Oui, or Non” will only amplify these fears that you’ve come to accept.

I recently reshared a video I posted trios-ans (when I was MUCH thinner) and despite my view of me physically, my heart, passion, and message were felt.

You are worthy and capable of designing the life you know you are meant to live. Consider that the people you’re sharing your ambitions with aren’t capable of seeing you pass their doubts and fears and how you walking in your light will change their relationship with you, or their lives.

After beaucoup uncertainty in one of the most stable career fields (the federal government), many of my former colleagues have contacted me for 1:1 sessions to be reminded of what they already know. That they are more than capable and deserve to be fulfilled in this life.

I am beyond thrilled to announce that I have relaunched my 1:1 calls to mes amies (and the public.)

Invest in the ultimate luxury: yourself, by clicking here to book a 1:1 call avec moi.

You won’t regret it.

I’m excited to witness you live fully.

Ciao for now 💋
Jessie Frances

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